Definite Signs He Loves You

There is no definition that can suitably cover the many facets of what love truly is. “Love”, as the song says, “is a many splendored thing”. But if you can see the effort is being made, this is by far one of the best signs. Love takes conscious effort; it takes commitment and dedication to be the person who will make the relationship successful.

Of course, making an effort is not always enough to indicate true emotional maturity. So, here are some of the efforts that indicate a true commitment to build a loving and caring relationship.

Love is genuine respect

Love and respect are inseparable when it comes to building a loving relationship. If your partner demonstrates respect for your decisions, your time, your values and your body, this is a sign that they view you as much more than just a friend.

A man will demonstrate respect in a wide variety of ways. One of the simplest and most obvious ways respect is shown is attentive listening. This shows that he has a value and respect for the way you think and is looking to understand you better and seek deeper meaning behind your thoughts and feelings.

Love means he makes you his priority

Another obvious sign of love is making you and the relationship that he shares with you a top priority.

When a man places your needs, feelings and concerns high on their priority list — deliberately setting aside other important elements of his life, like friends and personal pursuits to make sure you are well and happy — this is a sign of deep personal commitment and should never be taken lightly.

As far as acts of unselfishness, respect and personal commitment are concerned, this ranks very high in the list and must be understood as a strong sign of love.

When he’s unselfish with his time

A mature man knows that every second is bringing him closer to his life’s goals or holding him back. Therefore, time is the most valuable asset a man has.

One way you can tell that your man makes you a priority is in the time that he shares with you. If you feel that you can always count on him to take a break from the important demands of his life to unselfishly spend time in your life.

You can bet that he places a massive personal value in who you are as a person and this is a token of true love.

Does he address problems immediately?

Men are natural problem solvers. When something is important to a man, they will do all they can to understand the nature of the thing and learn how to apply troubleshooting efforts to avoid larger problems in the future.

Human relations will encounter many challenges and there will always be the option to ignore the issue and power forward, potentially risking greater problems in the future, or take the time and care to make reparations and improve the experience for all involved.

This indicates a proactive attitude toward the relationship and respect for the future outcome — a good sign that this man is thinking of the “F” word… (future).

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He shows you his vulnerable side

One definite sign that a man feels a strong sense of trust and even love for you is his capacity to occasionally drop his defenses and show you his vulnerable side. It is very important for a man to come across as strong and in control of their world.

This bullet-proof exterior is essential for facing the outside world and dropping this guard is tough and almost impossible. But if a man is willing to give you a glimpse of his vulnerable core, this is a sign that he is open to a loving relationship.

Don’t expect this to happen all at once, most often this can be a slow and difficult process.

His interest in you merely sexual.

This is an important one and can be detected fairly early in the relationship.

Does your man take an interest in what you have to offer outside of the bedroom? There is often a lot of excitement and passion at the early stages of a relationship, but obviously, this has little to do with actual love.

Of course, passion, fun, excitement and good sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. But much of this can be defined as lust and not love.

But if the attraction and interest remain after the bedroom this is a good sign that there is something more significant to the relationship.

The Future

The future can be a difficult thing to discuss for most couples early in the relationship.

One of the signs that indicates you man is ready to begin taking the long and arduous path of loving relationships is his capacity to discuss the future with you.

Be prepared to look for hints of this as they are usually quite subtle, he may suddenly mention a vacation he would love to take with you or drop other clues to a future he envisions with you.

You may also gauge his reaction to you doing the same thing — just don’t push it!

It is important to him that you feel cared for

One of the most endearing tokens of love is a man’s desire that you feel cared for and safe within the relationship.

This can be expressed in the most unexpected and touching ways; a surprise phone call at his lunch break, a bouquet of flowers, etc.

The little things he will do to brighten your day and improve your mood and remind you that there is someone in your life who cares very deeply for you.

Guys fall in love with women who do THIS.

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